I love my ex but I think she’s a serial dater with commitment issues
DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I love my ex, she’s a serial dater and I fear I’m just the latest in a long line of broken-hearted men.
We only dated for a few months. I really fell for her but she’s not ready for a committed relationship.
I’m 26 and she’s 24. Since we broke up two months ago, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her.
When we met, she was dating another guy. A few weeks after they broke up, we got together.
She was so enthusiastic at first – calling, messaging, wanting to see me.
But that soon wore off and she said she wasn’t feeling the love any more.
From what a friend told me, that’s the pattern with her.
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She’s still in touch and I can’t help hoping we get back together.
Would that be foolish?
DEIDRE SAYS: Unless something has changed, it is very likely she would break your heart again.
She has made it clear she is not yet ready to settle down and is enjoying playing the field.
My support pack, Moving On, should help you heal. It may be wise to avoid contact until you feel stronger.