I discovered my partner has an OnlyFans account – it feels different to watching porn
DEAR DEIDRE: LOGGING on to our family tablet to play our six-month-old baby girl some lullabies, I got the shock of my life to discover my partner had an OnlyFans account.
I found it so unsettling.
I wonder if it was because I had our baby in my arms or if it was because OnlyFans feels different to porn – more personal.
I’m 28 and he’s 29. I don’t consider myself a prude and have no problem with him watching porn, but this feels different.
One of the women who he follows is a former soap actress and he has always talked openly about how he fancies her.
Am I being too sensitive?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It does feel personal, because these are accounts your partner has chosen, and these women create the content themselves.
Explain to him how hurt you feel. Tell him you feel this is a betrayal and ask him to stop.
When any couple has children, it can become harder to stay connected.
So try to make time for each other.
I’m sending you my support pack Relationship MOT to help.