Girlfriend is fed up with my fetish with outdoor sex after park romp landed us police caution
DEAR DEIDRE: BECAUSE my fetish gets us into trouble, my girlfriend has given me the cold shoulder.
We’re both 24 and I thought we had an amazing sex life.
She knew that I like having sex outdoors. At first we did it in the car, then another time in the back seats of the cinema.
But the last time we had sex we got caught.
We were having a picnic in the park and got carried away.
Someone reported us to the police who gave us a verbal caution.
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Since then she says she would prefer to be with someone normal who likes getting intimate and cuddles in bed.
She has made me feel like a weirdo and is refusing to talk to me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: There is nothing weird about having a fetish, but yours is a bit risky.
You need to be mindful if you are in public.
Your girlfriend isn’t comfortable and you risk losing her.
If sex outdoors is your thing, make sure you are somewhere private, where you won’t get overlooked.
Indecent exposure is a criminal offence.