I slept with my friend but he claims that it was only a dream
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER I had sex with my friend, he told his girlfriend I’d dreamt the whole thing!
I can’t get over how he lied, or the fact she believes him.
I’m 18, and he and his girlfriend are both 19.
We’ve been close friends for a couple of years.
One night, we went out for drinks and ended up back at my flat, having sex.
Next morning, his – supposedly ex-girlfriend messaged me to ask if anything had happened.
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I told her the truth and apologised, saying I had no idea they were together.
But he convinced her I was lying because I’m so into him.
Now they’re really happy together again. I feel betrayed and angry.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It was cruel of your friend to lie to you and then deny anything happened.
His girlfriend has chosen to believe him, but the fact she messaged you suggests she doesn’t trust him.
And if he can cheat once, he’ll likely do it again.
Hard as it is, you need to tell yourself this guy doesn’t deserve you, or your friendship.
My support pack, Mend Your Broken Heart, should help.