Like many other black men, I grew up with only women around. Now I'm worried the experience has ‘feminised’ me

I am a 20-year-old black man who was raised by women: my mother, my sister, my aunties and my female cousins. I never thought this was abnormal.  Then one day a close friend said something that really took me aback. She suggested that growing up without men in my life had “feminised" me.