24 ways to influence even the most resistant people
Diana Yukari
Seduction — persuading a person to yield to your advances — isn't used only in the pursuit of a love interest.
Influencing others is how we get jobs and promotions, win negotiations, sell products, and gain notoriety.
In "The Art of Seduction," popular author Robert Greene explores the ruthless tactics of some of history's greatest seducers, from Cleopatra to Casanova.
We've summarized Greene's 24 rules of seduction below.
Diana Yukari/Business Insider1. Choose the right victim.
Your target should be someone "for whom you can fill a void," Greene says. Don't try to get the most out of those who are too eager to please you, because they are usually looking to get something in return; instead, find those who give subtle hints, like shyness in your presence, that they are open to your influence.
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2. Create a false sense of security — approach indirectly.
If you want to initiate a relationship with someone who would be of value to you, you risk forcing them to raise their guard if you approach them and immediately ask for something. Before making a proposal, reach out to them via a third party, or develop a neutral or friendly relationship before making it about business.
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3. Send mixed signals.
Once you've got someone hooked, give yourself an air of mystery to keep that person's interest. Don't reveal too much about your background or your intentions.
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