The Bachelor: The 7 Most Awkward Moments of a Dark and Chokey Episode
In the midst of crying and telling him how much she likes him, she said the lack of attention he was giving her upset her and she wanted to choke him.
Urban Dictionary has two results for "chokey," and neither of them are sexual, which is the only time that's ever happened in the history of Urban Dictionary.
Unless this whole kinky exchange was very subtle product placement for 50 Shades Darker.