I haven’t seen my neighbour since we had sex after inviting him in for drink

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER inviting my hot neighbour in for a drink, we had brilliant sex . . . but I haven’t seen him since. I am a woman of 21 and have liked this guy who lives next door for ages. He is 28 and properly gorgeous. I didn’t think I stood a chance with him but we happened to […]

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER inviting my hot neighbour in for a drink, we had brilliant sex . . . but I haven’t seen him since.

I am a woman of 21 and have liked this guy who lives next door for ages. He is 28 and properly gorgeous.

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I didn’t think I stood a chance with him but we happened to be putting our bins out at the same time one evening and we got chatting.

He seemed a bit down, so I asked him if he wanted to come inside for a socially distanced drink.

For a moment, he hesitated. But then he agreed, saying he didn’t see the harm, and came inside.

After a few drinks we started kissing and that led to us having sex.

He went home afterwards and it was a bit awkward. I haven’t seen him since and I don’t have his number. I don’t know what to do. I would really like this to be more than a one-off.

DEIDRE SAYS: He might not have seen that night with you as the start of anything serious. There is no harm in telling him how you feel, though.

Drop a note through his door asking if you and he can have a chat. If it is a no from him, at least you will know where you stand.

If you really like someone, try taking things slower next time so you get to know them better. They are more likely to value your time together that way. 

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