What is elegance? To style maven, beauty icon, and author Margarita “Tingting” Cojuangco, elegance is precision. It’s about wearing the right dress, being groomed for the right occasion, and speaking softly with “a mother’s strict vocabulary.” Whatever a woman’s height and shape are – long and lean, or petite and curvy – she should stand confidently with her “shoulders squared and a tilt of a humble chin.”