Wondering if a girl you date is still a virgin? 3 signs she is not…
For many men it is important to be the first one with their wife. So, they are looking to marry virgin girls. But how does find out about such a thing without carrying out a virginity test? Get the signs now.
Surely, before you start applying these to your girlfriend, you should gain a deeper understanding of what virginity is and how a girl gets disvirgined. For one, it is not all about the physical condition. Surely, most virgins have unbroken hymen (a tissue that partially closes their vagina entrance). However, the hymen can be broken without sex. For instance, a girl may be playing or riding her bike and it gets torn accidentally. She still remains a virgin, though.
Virginity is not about hymen, but rather about absence of sexual experience. Can you call a girl with unbroken hymen who had oral sex a virgin? Or the one who had anal sex? Virginity is about moral purity and integrity. It is the quality of soul, rather than of the body.
So, here are the signs of possible virginity loss in your girlfriend.
1. Her reaction to your questions
What does she say when you ask her if she is a virgin? In most cases, (if the girl is not a feminist), she would react calmly or shyly. The one who has lost it, may get irritated by your inquiries or angry with you. She has it no more and those questions make her nervous.
Unless, she is a very self-confident girl, who knows who she is with the hymen or without it!
2. She gets engaged in sex talk easily
A virgin girl has a bit of this natural modesty. She does not have firsthand experience in the process, so sex talk makes her uncomfortable. She would not be easily engaged in it.
3. How she conducts herself with men
Virginity loss is a serious step in every woman’s life. It involves some big changes in her behavior as well. But once there is not more to lose, a girl may start acting more lavishly and self-indulging with men. If she is a student, she might be hanging out in the teachers’ office all the time. It’s not a secret that such a place is rich with sex opportunities.
Now, if you see only one of these signs do not jump into any conclusion. Even a combination of all 3 of them is not a sure sign of the virginity loss. However, they may indicate a girl is not a virgin anymore. So, beware of them and pay close attention to her dressing style, conversations and moral standards.
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